Sad Bloggers

Hello,
Many ppl have told me they see tooooooooooooooooooooo many sad bloggers here on the Net and it concerns them. So here is the inside story on why there are so many sad blogs on the Net.

First where can one turn to "talk sad"?? Short answer is NOWHERE Longer answer is normally ppl will run if u start telling them u feel sad or stubbed ur toe or cut ur finger. But if u tell them u are disgusted with life oh my they will run as fast as they can to escape from u Actually it is a good way to learn how fast a person can run lol..... So that is no option for the person to off load their sadness. They can call some impersonal phone service who consels sad ppl but who wants to call them. Maybe if they have a good friend they could talk to them. But I don't know if a good friend would listen or not.... and not everyone has a good friend. So where can the sad person turn.

Well in this age of the Net it seems ppl turn here to unburden themselves of sadness to ppl they don't know and they feel comfortale with because they do not know them. If the person would tell their mom she might say "oh go out and rake the leaves and u will feel better". Their dad might say "oh don't talk so silly I had it much worse when I was ur age". So the ppl turn to the Net and tell their "sad stories" often I suspect with a bit extra sound of sadness than they really feel. Unfortunatley this upsets compassionate ppl here who get too concerned about the sad person and then they get sad and worried too and holy cow then everyone is crying and only the kleenex makers are happy at that situation.

Well I should take it more seriously I guess BUT I have been in many chatrooms years ago where ppl would come in and say "I am going to kill myself good luck to all" and ppl in the room would go into a panic thinking here was a person who WOULD kill themself. As time went on ppl got familiar with the game and saw the same person in different rooms doing the same thing and realized it was just a game. Plus they realized why would someone who was REALLY going to end it all come in a chatroom to "announce it" to all So I think that "sad posts" are just ppl leaving off steam that they can not leave off in normal life.

Like me for instance ..... amazing enough I actually talk sad sometimes ..... I know that is hard to believe LOL but I actually do...ask the monster and monster will tell u lol But I would never end my life as my church teaches that is a "ticket to hell" to do that. If I could have I would have "checked out" 25 yrs ago but our church "chains u to life" and won't let u leave till God says so.

So that is the story...keep the faith...keep hope alive...and pass the kleenex....

Goren :)